Home again, home again
We got home last night on the 8:30 ferry, after a very long weekend away in Oregon. We spent a wonderful few days with family that we love, doing things that were fun, and yet, when we pulled through the ticket booth in Horseshoe Bay, I felt an involuntary sigh of relief flood through me. Home. Twenty minutes on the ferry, a few minutes of waiting at the dock, two minutes of driving, and life can continue as normal.
Now, normal is a relative thing. We have friends visiting us from California, and I think that they don't find much "normal" about our life at all. A first visit to Bowen is often surreal - it's 8:15 p.m., and someone wants a latte, but, oh well, not on Bowen. Or the desire to buy ice cream at the grocery store off island - well intentioned, but it would just be cream by the time we got home. We live in near the Cove, so I try to walk as much as possible and drive as little as necessary. Up and down the hills, nothing like the flat lands of southern California.Of course, to me, all these are the reasons I love Bowen.
When in the States, Chris and I tend to go on shopping binges, because it is simply so EASY to jump in the car and hit any number of cheap and easy stores. But by the end of two days of this kind of "let's just go and see what we find" kind of instant gratification, I always feel emotionally bloated, and ready for a break. On Bowen, we spend almost nothing, we buy little, and we make do. So, we can't get a latte at night, we can't run to the Superstore when the fancy strikes, going to a movie on a whim is a thing of the past. So what? We get to go for walks and pick berries until our hands are stained and our tummies are full. Everywhere we walk or drive, we run into people we know and love. Probably, this isn't normal by anyone's standards. But I find it pretty fabulous, nonetheless.